How often do you think about how and why your friends came into your life? My answer? Quite often. Was it random or by design or maybe a bit of both? I once asked a good friend of mine how we met, funny thing is neither of us could remember. Weird, right? I know.
Regardless of the reason, some friends you just know are gonna be by your side for a while. Others? You are not so sure…There are those people you thought would make good friends but they end up being, well…not so good friends. Nevertheless, you miss them when they leave, but the truth is that missing them is a tiny little price to pay for your sanity. Maybe it’s because they are too toxic to be around, maybe they’re the perfect sly definition. Whatever the reason, some friendships are just too expensive, the cost far outweigh the benefits. I’ve had a few of those, made a few tough calls, I have to admit, losing friends doesn’t get any easier…
Not everyone in your life is meant to stay. People leave not necessarily because they’re not so good, sometimes because they’ve done their parts and it’s time to move on. There are those too.
For those who are meant to stay and do, those are the people you never wanna let go of. They don’t give up on you when you think they should, they are never absent even if they aren’t present, they stick with you for a long time…this is for them.